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Your First-Time Homebuyer’s Guide – A Local’s Perspective

  • Writer: Melissa Herdman
    Melissa Herdman
  • 5 days ago
  • 3 min read

Buying your first home is exciting, life-changing, and—let’s be honest—a little overwhelming. Whether you’ve been scrolling listings at midnight or you just decided it’s time to stop renting, I want to walk you through the process the same way I do in my buyer consultations. My goal? To make sure you feel informed, confident, and supported from start to finish.


Step 1: Start with Your “Why”

Before we talk bedrooms and backyards, I want to know why you’re buying. Are you ready to build equity instead of paying rent? Do you need more space for a growing family? Or maybe you’ve always dreamed of a little acreage outside of town. Knowing your “why” helps you find a home that supports your life—not just a house that happens to be for sale.


Step 2: Know Your Numbers

This part isn’t glamorous, but it’s important. Talk to a trusted local lender early in the process. They’ll help you:

  • Understand your budget and comfort zone

  • Get pre-approved 

  • Learn about programs that might help with down payment or closing costs


I can connect you with great lenders who understand our market and make the financing process smooth.


Step 3: Create Your “Must-Have” & “Nice-to-Have” List

We’ll talk about what matters most to you—location, layout, school district, yard size, commute times, all of it. The key is balance: we want to protect your must-haves while staying flexible enough to find a great home in your budget.


Pro tip: In this part of the country, you can find some incredible character in older homes (think hardwood floors, built-ins, and big porches), but newer builds often offer more energy efficiency and lower maintenance.


Step 4: Learn the Local Market

Every area is different. Some towns and neighborhoods move fast, and others give you more time to think. We’ll review what’s happening where you want to live—average prices, days on market, and what it takes to win in a competitive situation.


Step 5: Touring Homes Like a Pro

When we tour, I’ll help you look beyond paint colors and décor to focus on what really matters:

  • Structure and condition

  • Floor plan and flow

  • Potential for future updates

  • How it fits your lifestyle


We’ll also talk about resale potential—because even your “forever home” should be a smart investment.


Step 6: Making an Offer & Negotiating

This is where my job shifts into high gear. I’ll guide you through:

  • Crafting a strong, clean offer

  • Understanding earnest money and contingencies

  • Negotiating terms that protect your interests


And because I know the local norms and the seller’s side of the table, I can help position you in the best light possible.


Step 7: Inspections & Appraisal

Once we’re under contract, inspections let us make sure there are no surprises. I’ll connect you with reputable inspectors who give honest, detailed reports. If issues come up, we’ll decide together how to negotiate repairs or credits.


The appraisal ensures the home’s value supports your loan—and I’ll be there to navigate that too.


Step 8: Closing Day & Beyond

Closing day is celebration day! You’ll sign the final paperwork, get your keys, and step into homeownership. But my role doesn’t end there. I’ll be your go-to resource for contractor recommendations, market updates, and any questions that pop up long after the ink is dry.


A Few Local Tips for First-Time Buyers:

  • Taxes vary by county – It’s worth checking ahead so you know what to expect in your monthly payment.

  • Weather matters – Homes with good insulation and efficient heating can save you money long-term.

  • Be open to small towns – Some of the best values (and communities) are just outside the bigger cities.


Buying your first home doesn’t have to be stressful. With the right plan, a clear vision, and someone in your corner, you can move from dreaming to moving in—without losing sleep along the way.


If you’re ready to start, let’s sit down for a buyer consultation and talk about your “why,” your numbers, and your dream home.

 
 
 

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Melissa Herdman

Kirk & Cobb Realtors

2810 Southwest Gage Boulevard

Topeka, KS 66614 USA

535 Market Street

Osage City, Kansas 66523

Direct - (785) 250-7020

Fax - (785) 273-7536

Email - melissa@melissaherdman.com

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