Is Bigger Really Better?
- Melissa Herdman

- 2 days ago
- 2 min read
For a long time, the goal was to buy the biggest house you could afford. More bedrooms. More bathrooms. More square footage.
I’m seeing that mindset change.
More and more, people are asking a different question: What home actually fits the life I want to live?
That’s what I think of as a right-sized home.
For some people, that means buying more space because their family is growing or they’re working from home. For others, it means simplifying. Less to clean. Less to maintain. Lower utility bills. More time to spend doing the things they enjoy instead of taking care of a house that no longer fits this season of life.
I’ve had conversations with empty nesters who love having family visit, but they don’t need unused bedrooms the other 350 days of the year. I’ve worked with first-time buyers who thought they needed more square footage, only to realize that a home with a great layout gave them everything they needed.
Square footage is only one piece of the puzzle.
Think about how you actually live. Do you enjoy entertaining? Would you rather have a larger kitchen than a formal dining room? Is a main-floor primary bedroom becoming more important? Would you rather spend Saturday mornings on the patio than cleaning rooms you rarely use?
There isn’t one right answer. The right home looks different for everyone.
One of my favorite parts of this job is helping people figure out what matters most to them. Sometimes that means finding more space. Sometimes it means finding less. Most of the time, it means finding the home that fits the way they live today while also thinking about where they want to be a few years from now.
The biggest house isn’t always the best house.
The right-sized house usually is.




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